Upcoming Events and Classes
ZIVUG: Transition to Marriage (6 sessions)
Join Rabbi Getzel and a cohort of other couples for a six-class series on love, partnership, and the conscious transition to marriage. Through Jewish wisdom, guided exercises, and frank conversations, we will explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships. Open to couples (all gender and multifaith expressions of partnership strongly welcome) in the year preceding or following a wedding.
Jewish Prepare/Enrich Training (online)
For almost 40 years, Prepare/Enrich has provided Facilitators and couples with data-driven relationship insights that create clarity, focus, and a framework on which to build resilient relationships.
With the help of their Facilitator (you!), couples build on their strengths giving them the confidence to work on their specific growth areas.
Becoming a certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator provides you with the core knowledge and skills to confidently utilize Prepare/Enrich’s proven assessment and feedback resources, allowing you to get to know couples on a deeper level, more efficiently.
ZIVUG: Transition to Marriage (6 sessions, online)
Join Rabbi Getzel and a cohort of other couples for a six-class series on love, partnership, and the conscious transition to marriage. Through Jewish wisdom, guided exercises, and frank conversations, we will explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships. Open to couples (all gender and multifaith expressions of partnership strongly welcome) in the year preceding or following a wedding.
Personalizing Your Jew-ish Wedding (4 sessions)
Planning your wedding ceremony? Performing a wedding for others? Curious about ritual, ancient and modern? Join Rabbi Getzel Davis to deeply explore the ancient form of Jewish weddings and how they can be adapted to meet modern values and families. All are welcome regardless of Jewish background, observance or relationship status. All will leave with a basic knowledge of how to craft a wedding ceremony and tips for how to make the wedding sacred, meaningful, and fun.
Boston In-Person ZIVUG: Transition to Marriage (6 sessions)
Join Rabbi Getzel and a cohort of other Boston-area couples for a six-class series on love, partnership, and the conscious transition to marriage. Through Jewish wisdom, guided exercises, and frank conversations, we will explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships. Open to couples (all gender and multifaith expressions of partnership strongly welcome) in the year preceding or following a wedding.
Jewish Prepare/Enrich Training (online)
For almost 40 years, Prepare/Enrich has provided Facilitators and couples with data-driven relationship insights that create clarity, focus, and a framework on which to build resilient relationships.
With the help of their Facilitator (you!), couples build on their strengths giving them the confidence to work on their specific growth areas.
Becoming a certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator provides you with the core knowledge and skills to confidently utilize Prepare/Enrich’s proven assessment and feedback resources, allowing you to get to know couples on a deeper level, more efficiently.
Zivug: Conscious Transitions into a Second Marriage (6 sessions)
Join Rabbi Getzel and a cohort of other couples for a six-class series on love, partnership, and the conscious transition to a second (or subsequent) marriage. Second marriages end in divorce even more often than the first, so spending time visioning together and setting expectations can really help start a new marriage off on the “right foot.” Through Jewish wisdom, guided exercises, and frank conversations, we will explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships. Open to couples (all gender and multifaith expressions of partnership strongly welcome) in the year preceding or following the wedding.
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Lech L'Zivug: Adventuring into Vibrant Relationship
Join other couples in reflecting on relationship skills, studying Jewish wisdom around marriage, and making friends in your current stage of life. The wilderness will guide our journey into frank conversation, guided exercises, and text study.
ZIVUG: Transition to Marriage (6 sessions)
Join Rabbi Getzel and a cohort of other couples for a six-class series on love, partnership, and the conscious transition to marriage. Through Jewish wisdom, guided exercises, and frank conversations, we will explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships. Open to couples (all gender and multifaith expressions of partnership strongly welcome) in the year preceding or following a wedding.
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ZIVUG: Envisioning Your Wedding and Marriage (2 courses combined, 10 sessions)
Getting married? Mazal tov! This summer, join Rabbi Getzel and other couples for four sessions exploring the meanings, history and possibilities of Jewish wedding ceremonies, and then six sessions delving deep on the next stage: married life together.
A combination of From Henna To Honeymoon and this summer’s ZIVUG cohort.
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From Henna To Honeymoon: Personalizing A Jew-ish Wedding (4 sessions)
Planning your wedding ceremony? Performing a wedding for others? Curious about ritual, ancient and modern? Join Rabbi Getzel to deeply explore the ancient form of Jewish weddings and how they can be adapted to meet modern values and families. All are welcome regardless of Jewish background, observance or relationship status. All will leave with a basic knowledge of how to craft a wedding ceremony and tips for how to make the wedding sacred, meaningful, and fun.
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Kabbalah of Relationships (6 sessions)
Join Rabbi Getzel Davis on a search for the spirituality of encountering one's beloved. Explore kabbalistic, rabbinic, and philosophical wisdom on the nature of relationship, sex, and intimacy. Dive into teachings from the Zohar, Rabbi Isaac Luria, Rebbe Nachman of Breslov, Martin Buber, Jacques Derrida, Rabbi Menachem Froman, and Bell Hooks. This class welcomes partnered and unpartnered folks of all ages, faith backgrounds, gender identity and sexual orientation.
Celebrate & Connect: Jewish Holiday Couples' Series
Celebrate the Jewish Holidays together with your partner. Not just a meal, a visit to family (hurray?!), or synagogue. Mark the holiday by working on your relationship. Sweeten your partnership and discover newness in Rosh Hashanah as a couple. Practice forgiveness this Yom Kippur. Explore productive conflict on Sukkot. Talk money and gelt this Chanukah. Talk about thoughts (and philosophies) on parenting this Passover and about spirituality on Shavuot. Join for one class, or the whole series.
Zivug: Activist Couples Preparing for Marriage (7-class series)
Join Rabbi Getzel to explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships through Jewish wisdom, text study, guided exercises, and frank conversations. This is a class for folks specifically interested in exploring power dynamics, feminism, and how our decisions as a couple impact the world. Open to couples (all gender and multifaith expressions of partnership strongly welcome) in the year preceding or following a wedding who are interested in a conscious and healthy transition to marriage.
Mystical Connections: Kabbalistic Teachings on Relationships and Intimacy (8 sessions)
Join Rabbi Getzel Davis on a search for the spirituality of encountering one's beloved. Explore kabbalistic, rabbinic, and philosophical wisdom on the nature of relationship, sex, and intimacy. Dive into teachings from the Zohar, Rabbi Isaac Luria, Rebbe Nachman of Breslov, Martin Buber, Jacques Derrida, Rabbi Menachem Froman, and Bell Hooks. This class welcomes partnered and unpartnered folks of all ages, faith backgrounds, gender identity and sexual orientation.
Celebrate & Connect: Jewish Holiday Couples' Series
Celebrate the Jewish Holidays together with your partner. Not just a meal, a visit to family (hurray?!), or synagogue. Mark the holiday by working on your relationship. Sweeten your partnership and discover newness in Rosh Hashanah as a couple. Practice forgiveness this Yom Kippur. Explore productive conflict on Sukkot. Talk money and gelt this Chanukah. Talk about thoughts (and philosophies) on parenting this Passover and about spirituality on Shavuot. Join for one class, or the whole series.
Celebrate & Connect: Jewish Holiday Couples' Series
Celebrate the Jewish Holidays together with your partner. Not just a meal, a visit to family (hurray?!), or synagogue. Mark the holiday by working on your relationship. Sweeten your partnership and discover newness in Rosh Hashanah as a couple. Practice forgiveness this Yom Kippur. Explore productive conflict on Sukkot. Talk money and gelt this Chanukah. Talk about thoughts (and philosophies) on parenting this Passover and about spirituality on Shavuot. Join for one class, or the whole series.
Celebrate & Connect: Jewish Holiday Couples' Series
Celebrate the Jewish Holidays together with your partner. Not just a meal, a visit to family (hurray?!), or synagogue. Mark the holiday by working on your relationship. Sweeten your partnership and discover newness in Rosh Hashanah as a couple. Practice forgiveness this Yom Kippur. Explore productive conflict on Sukkot. Talk money and gelt this Chanukah. Talk about thoughts (and philosophies) on parenting this Passover and about spirituality on Shavuot. Join for one class, or the whole series.
Mystical Connections: Kabbalistic teachings on intimacy and relationships (6 sessions)
Join Rabbi Getzel for a 6-class series on the spirituality of encountering one's beloved. We will explore rabbinic, kabbalistic, and philosophical wisdom on the nature of relationship, sex, intimacy, and gender. Over the series we will explore teachings from the Zohar, Rabbi Isaac Luria, Rebbe Nachman of Breslov, Martin Buber, Jacques Derrida, Rabbi Menachem Froman, and Bell Hooks. Queer, interfaith, couples, and single folks all welcome!
Online Thursdays from 8:00-9:30pm EST
ZIVUG: Activist Couples Transitioning to Marriage (7 sessions)
Join Rabbi Getzel to explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships through Jewish wisdom, text study, guided exercises, and frank conversations. This is a class for folks specifically interested in exploring power dynamics, feminism, and how our decisions as a couple impact the world. Open to couples (all gender and multifaith expressions of partnership strongly welcome) in the year preceding or following a wedding who are interested in a conscious and healthy transition to marriage.
Online Wednesdays 8pm-9:30pm EDT
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Zivug: Activist Couples Preparing for Marriage (7-class series)
Join Rabbi Getzel for a 7-class series for couples interested in a conscious and healthy transition to marriage. Through Jewish wisdom, text study, guided exercises, and frank conversations, we will explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships.
ZIVUG: Transition to Marriage (7-class series)
Join Rabbi Getzel for a 7-class series directed toward couples on love, ‘beshert,’ and the conscious transition to marriage. Through Jewish wisdom, text study, guided exercises, and frank conversations, we will explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships. Open to couples (all gender and multifaith expressions of partnership strongly welcome) in the year preceding or following a wedding.
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[Gelt Retreat] The Light and Shadow of Money with Yotam Schachter
Money plays a pivotal practical role in all of our lives. And yet, our relationship with money is often about much more than the practicality.
In this session, we’ll take a look at the meanings we project onto money - both light and dark - taking some of the power out of them and freeing us to make money choices based on our deeper values.
[Gelt Retreat] Setting Up Wills For New Parents and the 'Just Married' with Barbara Katz
Georgia attorney Barbara Katz will discuss the documents that all marrying and/or married couples should complete to provide for their spouse and children, including wills, health care advance directives and financial powers of attorney.
[Gelt Retreat] Separate, Merged, or Blended: How Partners Combine Finances with Zach Teutsch
Join Zach Teutsch of Values Added Financial for a guided discussion and exploration of how and when to combine finances. After exploring the “meaning” of money for each of you and your partner, we will turn towards the questions:
Should we merge money, keep it separate or somewhere in between?
If we do some merging, what sorts of purchasing or other financial decisions would we want to know about or discuss before the other one takes action?
If we do some merging, who will be responsible for making sure bills are paid on time?
Which paychecks should go where? Should we keep accounts on autopay?
How to approach debt? Should we approach it together?
[Gelt Retreat] Saving For Retirement While Saving The World with Jason Pollens
No one is born knowing how to save or to invest. Learn more about your options to save for retirement and about the different options for investing including socially responsible investing.
[Gelt Retreat] Gelt, God, and Gratitude: Jewish Wisdom on Money and Relationships
The Jewish wisdom tradition has much to say on the power of money: its ability to create and destroy worlds. Join Rabbi Getzel for an evening Torah study on money and how its core myths influence our relationships.
Gelt: Chanukah Retreat for Couples
Chanukah is a perfect time for you and your partner to take stock of your relationship to finances.
Join ZIVUG for five nights of workshops with experts on everything money, including:
Jewish wisdom on money
Different approaches to combining finances
Ethical investing
Wills and financial documents
The light and shadow of money
Zivug: Activist Couples Preparing for Marriage (7-class series)
Join Rabbi Getzel for a 7-class series for couples interested in a conscious and healthy transition to marriage. Through Jewish wisdom, text study, guided exercises, and frank conversations, we will explore the growth and maintenance of vibrant relationships. This is a cohort for folks specifically interested in exploring power dynamics, feminism, and how our decisions as a couple interact impact the world.
Open to couples (all gender and multifaith expressions of partnership strongly welcome) in the year preceding or following a wedding. In our final class, each couple will draft a contract/ketubah to testify to their values and goals as they mark this transition.
Online Wednesdays 8pm-9:30pm
Oct 14th, 21st, 28th, Nov 4th, 11th, 18th, and Dec 2nd
Cost: $250 per couple. Scholarships available.
Advanced Zivug (8 monthly sessions)
A class open only to alumni of a previous ZIVUG cohort. Join a monthly check in and skills building workshop with other couples around the country as we continue to practice turning towards each other and grow together in relationship. Building off of the ZIVUG model, we will dive more deeply into creating a family identity, choosing how we relate to our families or origin, and making decisions around parenthood. Each meeting will consist of evocative text study, couples exercises, and group process. All gender expressions, religious backgrounds and Hebrew backgrounds welcome.
Sundays once a month at 8pm EST, online.